getting unstuck
Why Achieving Your Goals Doesn't Always Make You Happy
You celebrate. You're proud. A few weeks later you're doing laundry, answering emails and wondering what to make for dinner.
27 October 2026
awake lab
Manifestation, visualization and future-self work, examined by someone who wants it to be true and still checks the evidence.
getting unstuck
You celebrate. You're proud. A few weeks later you're doing laundry, answering emails and wondering what to make for dinner.
27 October 2026
the practice
You know that version of yourself who makes ambitious plans on Sunday evening? By Wednesday, this person has mysteriously disappeared.
27 October 2026
the evidence
Picture yourself achieving the thing you've wanted for years. Feels good, doesn't it? Now the inconvenient question: did imagining it get you any closer?
27 October 2026
getting unstuck
You think, "They probably didn't like what I said." A minute later, you're acting as though you've received official confirmation.
23 October 2026
the practice
You pick up your pen, and everything sounds either painfully vague or copied from a motivational Instagram account.
23 October 2026
the practice
You've already rehearsed an argument in your head. Now imagine using that same ability for something you actually want to do.
23 October 2026
getting unstuck
An old habit returning doesn't necessarily mean you've lost the progress you made. It may mean the situation that triggers it hasn't changed as much as you thought.
16 October 2026
the practice
We can recognise an unfair criticism when it comes from someone else, yet repeat the same thing to ourselves without questioning it.
16 October 2026
the practice
Not what would you own. Not what would you have achieved. What would an ordinary Tuesday look like?
16 October 2026
getting unstuck
Overthinking can make doing nothing feel surprisingly productive. You're busy, you're learning, you're considering every possibility.
14 October 2026
the practice
Writing about a future you want doesn't have to be an exercise in pretending. The useful part is what you do after you close the notebook.
14 October 2026
the practice
Somewhere along the way, an experience became a description. And the description became part of your identity.
14 October 2026
the evidence
Same job. Same problems. Same unfinished plans. Maybe you've been given an explanation of manifestation that doesn't hold up.
12 October 2026
the practice
You're probably very good at imagining things going wrong. What would happen if you gave the future you actually want a little of that attention?
11 October 2026
the evidence
You can believe in yourself without believing that your thoughts control the weather, your bank account, or other people's decisions.
10 October 2026